Phuket, Thailand was pretty amazing. Beautiful beaches, cheap and amazing food, friendly people, fascinating culture…I only got a quick taste of it, but I definitely recommend it.
Before I left Singapore to fly to Phuket, I was second guessing whether I should have spent the money to go there on my own. It seemed like kind of a waste. But now that I am back I can say it was totally worth it. I would love to go back with Dustin, as I think there is so much more to see and I was only there for such a short time. I know that there is a lot more to Thailand than just the bit of Phuket that I explored, though I still had a great time!
I arrived Christmas day around noon. My hotel, Cape Sienna Hotel and Villas, was about a 45 minute drive from the airport. I arranged for transport via the hotel; since I was traveling alone, it seemed like a good idea. The airport taxi area was nuts, so I am really glad I did secure transport. If I were not alone, a local taxi would have been fine, but I know my parents felt better knowing that I was safe.
I quickly settled into my hotel, which was WAY too big for one person, with two bathrooms, a living room, kitchen, jacuzzi on the deck…I had no idea what I was booking, I guess. I actually didn’t do that much research since coming to Phuket was kind of a last-minute trip. I went with my friend’s recommendation from her recent trip to Thailand. The hotel was really nice though, but much more than I needed on my own.
After I arrived, I headed right to the treadmill to get in my training miles for Tokyo. #firstworldproblems #tokyotraining #ugottadowhatugottado
After the run and a shower, I headed straight to a lounge chair in the sun for some relaxing. I had just a few hours before the sun went down, but it was plenty of time for my first day. I also took the time to arrange a boat tour to Phi Phi Islands for Saturday as well as sign up for the free shuttle bus to Patong beach for Friday.
It was Christmas Day, but I’ll be honest, it didn’t really feel that way…even with some Christmas lights at the resort.
I ate some Thai food at a local restaurant and then headed to bed. The time difference in Thailand was still 13 hours ahead (vs. 14 in Singapore). which made it difficult to talk to my friends and family on Christmas, so it didn’t really feel like Christmas.
Anyways,…since I was going on the Phi Phi tour on Saturday, I had to get my long run done Friday morning. The hotel gym didn’t open until 7 am, but I was there right at 7 am to get started on my 25 kilometers! I had 15 miles (or about 25k on the treadmill) to run, with the first 10 easy and the final 5 at goal marathon pace.
The wifi wasn’t working in the gym, so I couldn’t watch Netflix. All that was on the gym TV were Thai shows so ended up watching old episodes of the Mindy Project on the laptop that I propped up on the treadmill (precariously.) It helped make the time pass much more quickly!
After the long run, I was pretty beat. I lounged by the pool for awhile…
…until about 1:30 when I took the free shuttle to Patong beach.
Patong is the main beach area of Phuket, whereas my hotel was on Kamala beach up on a cliff. Patong is where you’ll find all the ladyboys, massage parlors every 5 feet (some stating “no sex” outside…others, not so much), crazy party vibe- honestly, Patong was like a dirtier Las Vegas with better beaches.
Don’t get me wrong, there’s definitely more to Phuket than the party scene, but the party scene is definitely intense. I was able to avoid it by visiting Patong during the day and staying away from the bars and clubs.
The hotel shuttle dropped me off at a little mall. From there, I had to walk about 20 minutes to Patong Beach. I needed to purchase a beach towel for the Phi Phi Island tour the next day. I ended up negotiating with a ladyboy who ran a little stand by the beach. He wanted to charge me 400 THB, but I had just read that you never pay what they quote you. I am so not good at negotiating…especially on my own! I said I only had 200 THB with me. I ended up paying him 250 THB for the towel (about $7 USD).
I had my beach towel and was ready to lounge…not before a quick picture with my adventure buddy!
I arrived at Patong and settled in with my book- one of many books. Over this trip I have read Beautiful Ruins, What Alice Forgot, Where’d you go Bernadette, Eleanor & Park, and For Whom the Bell Tolls. I know that Hemingway doesn’t really fit in with the rest, but I just grabbed a book from our “study” before I left and really enjoyed it! I actually really enjoyed all of them. Have you read any of these? Thoughts?
I do need a few more books for the flight to the Philippines and then the flight home- any recommendations??
Patong beach is huge and it was packed! Lots of great people-watching and beach activities going on, as well as cheap Thai food and cheap massages on the beach.
It did start to rain a bit after I had been at Patong for about an hour. I took cover for awhile in a nearby restaurant. After about 30 minutes, the sun came back out, but it was time for me to make my way back to catch the return shuttle to the resort. I had just enough time to get a “Japanese facial massage” which was more like a regular old facial to me, with a little more scalp massaging AND they shaved my face! Yep. That was interesting! I asked my brother-in-law in Tokyo about that, and he said its very common for women to get their faces shaved. But am I going to have to keep it up? I didn’t even know I was in need of a facial shave!
Anyways, stop by in a day or two for lots of gorgeous pictures from the Phi Phi Island tour! It was absolutely the highlight of my short trip to Phuket. The tour took up my entire Saturday, and then this morning I flew back to Singapore. It was a quick adventure in Phuket, but I really enjoyed it. I would love to come back with Dustin and explore more with him!
I have to be honest that traveling alone is limiting. I didn’t realize how much of a difference it makes to have someone with you- male or female- versus being on your own. I know that my mom is reading this and saying “THAT’S WHY I DIDN’T WANT YOU TRAVELING ALONE!!!” but it really is challenging not to have the security of a friend looking out for you. I constantly worry that I’m getting ripped off or that I’m putting myself in an unsafe situation when I’m completely alone. Most of the time, I don’t have any cell phone service or any way of contacting anyone if something did happen. I consider myself rather independent, but exploring in Phuket on my own made me very aware that it really helps to have a friend. I’m feeling a little friendless these days.
So Mom, I know you’re reading this and don’t worry- I was very safe. I never did anything stupid and never felt unsafe. I just would have felt better with a friend.
Even so, it was a good time. I’m back in Singapore for my final week of work here until a week in Manila. Now I guess I should start thinking about NYE plans! I wanted to run a 10k here, but its already filled to capacity. Perhaps I will just run a 15k for 2015 on my own instead to ring in the new year!
What about you? Any fun plans for New Year’s? A New Year’s day run, perhaps? I would love to hear!
Looks amazing!!! Maybe not the ideal way to spend Christmas, but you’re definitely inspiring me to bite the bullet and travel by myself someday! For books – I loved “The Kite Runner” and am just starting one of his other books, “A Thousand Splendid Suns.” I also recently finished the latest Jodi Piccoult book (I forget the name, it’s about elephants) and Scott Jurek’s book “Eat and Run.” Enjoy the rest of your trip, looks like you’re making the most of it!!
Thanks for reading and commenting Laura! I am happy if my travels have inspired you at all 🙂 Even though I was a little whiny in this post about my lack of friends, it still has been quite an adventure and I am glad I did it. I have read both the Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Sons. It’s fun to hear what others have been reading! Jodi PIccoult + elephants sounds like I would be a blubbering fool on the plane- I can’t handle sad stories about elephants! But maybe I will check it out anyways 🙂 Dustin… Read more »
Jessie – you have been in my thoughts this whole holiday weekend! I meant to get a message off to you before now but I have been thinking about you! You are definitely being adventurous…I did not do a good a job of that in my time in Singapore (although I was just there for two weeks or a bit less I think…sad that I can’t actually remember how long!). I did better in London but remember also feeling pretty alone and out of touch. Anyways, hang in there! As for books, I just finished Orphan Train by Christina Baker… Read more »
Vicki, thank you for thinking of me and for the email. You are a good friend! It’s so nice to hear from people back home. It sounds like you had a really nice holiday. Two weeks was all I had last time too, and its just not as much time….I have had a lot more time to explore with 6 weeks!
I will check out Orphan Train. Thanks so much for the recommendation.
Hey Jessie! Love your post, as always! Traveling alone can be rewarding in its challenges, for sure! I also read Beautiful Ruins and loved it. I’m reading The Kite Runner right now, as the above comment also suggests, and am enjoying it so far, although it is intense at times. If you haven’t read Wild by Cheryl Strayed yet, I would highly recommend that book. Enjoy your last weeks in Asia! 🙂
Hi Katie! I read Wild and absolutely LOVED it. It’s funny though- Dustin read it after me and he focused entirely on how horrible of a person she was (the cheating, the drugs) and my takeaway was more on the adventure and how brave she was…I can’t wait to see the movie. I have been following Cheryl Strayed on social media and she seems like a really cool woman now.
I also read Kite Runner awhile back- super intense, but I’m glad I read it. Thanks for the recommendations anyways, its fun to hear what you have been reading/enjoying!
I second Vicki’s recommendation of “Orphan Train”. Also, I’ve recently read (or listened to while running/driving) and enjoyed the following:
-Me Before You – by Jojo Moyes
-Delicious! – fiction by food critic Ruth Reichl
-These Is My Words – by Nancy E. Turner
-The Husband’s Secret – by Liane Moriarty
-The Rosie Project – Graeme C. Simsion
Okay, I must read this Orphan Train! Thanks for all the suggestions- the only one I have already read is Me Before You.
Thanks Katie!
Totally get that it’s different traveling solo… it’s so much more fun to share the experience with someone else! That said, I think everyone should travel solo at least once; you learn so much about yourself! I went to Costa Rica alone in 2009 (pre smart phone) and was pretty much cut off from the world (other than the internet café I found halfway into my trip).
Books recs: Brain on Fire, Unbroken, Boys in the Boat, Swimming to Antarctica, Daring Greatly. All are excellent!
Yes! The experience is more fun when shared…I also found myself not doing things (like riding a tuk-tuk!) because I had been told it wasn’t safe to do alone. So I missed out on some experiences because I was solo.
Brain on Fire (LOVED) Unbroken (ALSO LOVED!!) are great, but I haven’t read the others. I hope I can find a bookstore that carries them here!
Thanks erin!
Hi Jessie – Sounds like such a fabulous trip and that you made the most of it while traveling alone! That beach looks pretty awesome right about now!
Reading suggestions: The Book Thief, The Night Circus & This Is Where I Leave You. I couldn’t put any of them down! Also good: Paris Wife, Let The Great World Spin, #GIRLBOSS, and Rainbow Rowell’s other books.
Thanks Jenna! I really loved the Paris Wife (that is why I ended up reading Hemingway this trip!) and read the Night Circus and the Book Thief but that’s all- I need to find the rest of your suggestions at an English bookstore here. Thank you so much for all the great ideas!
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